The following is a first stab at this search. Suggestions, as always, are welcome.
polite* OR respect* OR courtes* OR courteous* OR
courtliness OR civilit* OR civil OR gracious* OR manners OR mannerliness OR
correctness OR correctitude OR seemliness OR seemly OR decency OR decencies OR niceties OR nicety OR elegance OR elegancies OR modest* OR etiquette OR formal* OR informal* OR
soothing OR soothe OR dignity OR autonom* OR empower* OR "social
conventions" OR "proper behavior" OR comport* OR conduct* OR
demeanor OR decorum OR propriety OR refinement OR "social graces" OR
"social code" OR "social codes" OR "good citizenship"
OR "good form" OR mores OR nonantag* OR antagon* OR discourt* OR rude
OR incivil* OR impolit* OR immodest* OR crude* OR impropriety OR snob* OR
sarcastic OR snub* OR arrogan* OR belitt* OR demean* OR depersonal* OR
disrespect* OR rush* OR misbehav*
